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Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Sept 28th and Sept 29th Greek SPECIAL (special doesnt equal cheap as this is not a normal service)

Come and pick me up and lets go to your place. Doesnt matter how far away you live. Our appointment time begins once we reach your location. By the way nothing breaks the ice like a nice bottle of red wine and a great meal. I am available to be picked up and taken as far as Alpharetta,Cumming Gainesville, Suwanee any of my old stomping grounds. I need to make rent by tomorrow I need 450 BY TOMORROW.. SO GUYS COME HELP!

Good Weds morning! I am inviting you to come pick me up today or tonite and have some fun. I need to let you know I do not usually offer Greek at ALL. I have only done it in my escorting life about 5 times total. Trust and believe if you see me offering this service there is a legitimate financial reason for it.

Due to it being a bit tricky of a service. I prefer white, mexican, asian men for it. (black men you are welcomed for all other types of sessions)

Also you cannot be wide or large for Greek. I will only attempt it with older men over 40, and preferably with smaller to average penises. This is my comfort zone for this so please respect that.

I normally require 300 -400 to even consider Greek. I will do greek today on the 28th and tomorrow the 29th for 150.00 flat.

I CAN ONLY HOST FROM 9 AM TILL NOON AFTER THAT YOU MUST BE ABLE TO PICK ME UP AND HOST AT YOUR LOCATION!

Also Multi Hour date available tonite hours MUST be 9pm till 1am.. no later due to my family responsibilties. You must be able to pick me up and host!! flat rate for that many hours is 350.00 tonite only normally more!

text me 4702101596 ( please be prepared for screening. I must feel safe in order to meet you)

Monday, September 26, 2016

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies I am here to assist! Transgender Ladies and Male Escorts also Welcomed

Let me help you with all your companionship needs. Everything it takes to market you in a very professional manner is available and affordable.

Visit stormassists.blogspot.com !

Looking forward to working for and with you!

Storm


Wednesday, September 21, 2016

Bad Client or Bad Prospective Client Behavior Broken Down

The two things I hate the most are Entitlement and Cheapness!

Lets begin with Entitlement



Gentlemen, escorts/companions are people. We are actual women or men. We are not items that you went to the store and purchased. You cannot own an escort (unless its a fetish lifestyle choice, but that's not what I am referring to). You see entitlement requires that you have the "right" to something.

When meeting an escort remember just because you are spending money ,that does not give you the right to behave badly, to speak to her in a condescending fashion or for you to assume that she must do ANYTHING you want or say simply because you paid her.

Always remember you are paying for a companions time and companionship. Not specifically what she does or doesn't do in that time. You are not ENTITLED to anything besides, time, companionship, safety and a clean and fun lady. You should as a client expect good client service ( and I don't mean sexual by that) I mean good atmosphere, her being friendly and warm non rushed and attractive and discreet.

Please stop saying these things. ( to me anyway although I am sure most providers would agree and probably have their own things they'd like to add)

1.) When I tell you my rate and the amount of time for the rate.. Do not then tell me "I want this amount of time for that amount and if you give me that I'll come".

Sweety, this is my body and my business. Do you tell your attorney how much you are paying? Do you tell Macy's what you want to pay for a shirt?

I am sure the reply is no! So then do not try that crap with a companion. We are business women. While it is meant to be fun and pleasurable at the end of the day it is how we financially support ourselves. There is a lot of behind the scenes admin work, ad fees, website design, scheduling etc that go into what we provide for you.

So when I tell you my expectations and my rules. RESPECT THEM , or I suggest you find another lady to see.

2.) What is your donation? ( hello sir it was certainly on my ad or my website) , but what really ticks me off with this one is, After I tell you what it was you then say "oh that's too much".

Here's the problem with that. Again its my body , my business my rules. Secondly, every site you visit to find companions has a wide range or looks, types, prices. If you already knew I was out of your budget it is NOT my job to change my expectations to suit your budget. My rate is my rate. I do run the occasional special .. be grateful for when it happens and when I am not running a special respect my usual rate and see someone more in your financial means.

3.)When you have clearly read my website or emailed me and know what I offer or don't offer and what my rules are and yet you then act like a 5 year old when you hear the word no and say "but why not?" Again , my body, my rules, my business.

4.) Oh and this one "Why are you so stuck up? Just answer my question! Remember it's us guys that keep you in business".. I strongly suggest you guys remember why we are in business. .why? Because you need us and what we provide to spice up your otherwise mundane, unhappy,boring lives, Therefore remember there are hundred, thousands of more men who will follow the rules who WILL be seen while you are busy trying to "stick out your chest" by being rude and demanding.

5. )" I am private , I am important and I can't give you my information for screening" " its not a job interview I just want to have some fun" point blank my life and freedom are just as valuable as yours. That arrogant sounding excuse you guys give for not screening is so offensive and rude. Screen or be willing to screen or go see another lady. No argument needed.

Are you gentlemen starting to see the theme? Paying or not you have a misconception that you run the date, the appointment the business. This is the one business where the consumer is not always right! And why is that you ask because you are dealing with people and their personal space and their body is the actual merchandise therefore the companion will always run the show and be the lead. You gentlemen are not entitled to just do whatever you want, say whatever you want simply because you paid us.

Being humble, clean, mannerly , kind , polite, and generous will get you a lot more "action" and extras than being an entitled pompous asshole.

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On to the second one Cheapness

I am going to be brief on this as it really should not even need a discussion.

At no time have you seen my rates at 20 or 30 dollars.

I will admit because I am transparent to times when I lived in hotels back when or when I had a sick family member so I grabbed ONE PERSON and one only to cover say 40-50 if it was an emergency but to advertise that rate daily, monthly, regularly etc. hell no!

My rates are on my ads and my site. They are CRYSTAL CLEAR. and even if you didn't know them you can see based on my ads and how I word them and how I take my pictures and the professionalism shown on my site., that I am NOT a normally cheap girl.

I am not going to accept 20, but to then have the audacity to say anything over 20 is too much I suggest you go find a crackhead because no reputable provider is going to see you at 20 or 30 or 40 etc , etc. Please stop contacting me with such insane requests.

My site clearly states what kind of provider I am . A professional, educated, lady who does not cater to or have time for riff raff mentality. (bum mentality and by the way bum can be a state of mind not just a state of your wallet)

And this is an extra added bonus no no. .outside of entitlement and cheapness. this one falls under..

Insanity



Do not ask me how much extra you can pay for bare head or bare anything!!!

There is no price tag appropriate enough to make me risk my life or health.

Especially in Atlanta where men are passing out diseases like candy. HIV gets passed out here like its trick or treat candy and yet you still want to play bare. Really? On what planet. Again the answer is no please stop asking.

So. I hope anyone contacting me from here out will NOT do this madness. It really makes the day stressful and I am not here for that. I am here to provide a good , relaxing service. Be respectful.

Storm

Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Strange occurence ladies possible law enforcement alert ..( or man working w law enforcement)

Ladies, after my two unfortunate arrests over the years. I have become a somewhat meticulous screener and this is why I also offer my services to other ladies. This gent who's info I am about to share was really good at having everything he would need to pass screening ( at eye level)

I asked him what time/donation amount he wanted for a session. He replied w Trip to the isles. Its mentioned on my site but it also clearly says heavier screening is required. So he agrees to screening. He is forthcoming sends face pic and Real name and name of company etc. I on my own dig deeper and locate his Twitter and his Linkedin. He had 180 connections on linkedin.

I am still on the fence about him so when I am on the fence and know they are trying to possibly use my texts or emails to have evidence I then always send this message and make them type back that they agree to it. Then I screenshot it and email it to myself to have on record should any BS occur.

This is what I sent him via text "Also let me state this. Donations are for TIME AND COMPANIONSHIP ONLY. I do not accept money in exchange for any thing illegal or for sexual acts. Pls reply back to these terms and agree that you understand that this is not an act of prostitution ..only two friends sharing time together"

He types back that he agrees to my terms. So then I give him the address..( but never my apartment number oh no) .. smarter than that. Now hes radio silent.

They often go radio silent even after agreeing once I send that text to them when I think they may be cops. I do it with ones I am unsure about just to see how it plays out..He failed the test by disappearing once he got directions.

I even then called just to try to get a feel for him by ear on the phone and guess what? The number that's registered to a construction company rings once then goes to a fast busy. This is not a real phone or atleast not one that you can call into. So....

(IMPORTANT TO NOTE HE JUST REPLIED TO MY FOLLOW UP EMAIL AND SAYS HE WOULDN'T HAVE SENT HIS INFO ETC IF HE WERE A COP BUT THAT HE CHANGED HIS MIND.. HMM ISSUE IS THE PHONE .. WHILE HE MAY REALLY WORK WHERE HE SAYS.. THAT PHONE THING IS A REAL RED FLAG TO ME AND ALSO A REAL GENTLEMAN WOULD HAVE SIMPLY SAID THAT HE CHANGED HIS MIND WAY BEFORE NOW... SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THIS ONE AND I WANT ALL YOU LADIES TO BE SAFE)

IT IS WITH DEEP REGRET AND I PRAY I NEVER HAVE TO DO THIS AGAIN THAT I AM GOING TO BLACKLIST A MAN I SCREENED . I PROMISED I'D NEVER DO THIS BUT I FEEL STRONGLY THAT SOMETHING IS UP AND I NEED TO KEEP OTHER GIRLS SAFE. TO OTHER MEN READING THIS... THIS IS NOT THE NORM OF HOW I DO THINGS HE IS THE FIRST AND HE IS THE EXCEPTION MAINLY DUE TO THE PHONE RED FLAG AND THE GETTING ADDY AND NOT COMING THRU.. ITS A HUGE SAFETY FLAG!

Name Casey Cannady

Occupation Site Manager for Construction

Race White with some facial hair

Phone number THE PHONE THAT IS NOT REAL AND WAS USED TO TEXT TO BOOK AND IS FALSELY REGISTERED TO A COMPANY

4045743564

404-574-3564

EMAIL ADDY BAILEYS********@gmail.com



Be careful ladies if any of you need more info message me privately I do have his pics etc also.

Be safe these guys are getting slicker and slicker!!

Storm

Monday, September 19, 2016

Some pics and little tidbits Last Blog probably for this week.. lol

These are a few random pics that let you know the things I enjoy, enjoy doing and how I spend my time.

I love to read up on things and am currently as you know ( although I had to take a break) trying to finish up my CNA certification I need 500.00 to graduate( got to pay off tuition). I also love to read up on psychology and have considered later becoming an RN at a psychiatric hospital or perhaps a counselor. So you'll see I reguarly read the Diagnostic Tool book. I actually find it to be a great help with my kids and dealing with my clients.

I also am an EXCELLENT cook , others words not my own. My favorite things to cook are rather gourmet oriented. No plain meals here. I mainly book Italian, Mexican or Soul Foods.

Lastly YOU GUYS WILL LOVE THIS ONE. I have found recently that my hormonal changes have me going back to how I used to be when I was younger and I actually am beginning to enjoy nipple stimulation again as long as its not too heavy and in conjunction with clitoral stimulation. The two have to be happening at the same time for me to enjoy it.

Well here's a few pics to give the words meaning. Enjoy your week! Come see me or come get me and we can go to your home. I do also offer dates where as long as you provide the supplies I cook us dinner before the fun!

Xoxo

Storm

LADIES lets combine our forces and see if Eros will listen!

(Early morning .. please pardon any typos till later..lol)

I began advertising with Eros originally back in 2001. I remember them always being somewhat tricky to deal with but it seems lately, especially from what I hear from other providers it has gotten out of hand. Via Twitter I and other ladies complained about a couple of things and were told to openly express our concerns and these issues would be directed to the upper powers that be. I am a strong believer in there is power in numbers.

You do NOT have to attach your provider name or real name.. make up a name , I do not care but PLEASE SEND ME VIA EMAIL ALL YOUR ISSUES AND COMPLAINTS. I am serious about making sure women are heard and about our spending dollars being respected. I have not advertised on Eros in years but have spoken to them the last couple of months and will be going back to them this coming week. But first before I do I want ALL of us to be heard and to be respected and to have them see that whatever issues we have with them are serious and needing to be addressed so that they can make their advertisers happy.

I know for me my issue is that I am ALL FOR ID being shared on ladies who look younger than 21, or who are new to Eros. I get it and I respect it , my beef if you will is that I have been advertising since 2001 off and on. I am clearly over 21 and they used to keep the records on file now they claim they no longer have them. WHICH IS GREAT as far as getting rid of the copy of the ID itself BUT IF YOU CAN see .. in your files that my advertiser name and acct info has been on record for years ( that stuff they should really keep on file) , then don't bust my balls so to speak over this damn sending ID shit again. Any customer who has been with them that long even if off and on is clearly over the legal age and should be welcomed back easily without the interrogation.

Slixa ( although not as great for getting actual calls) is MUCH more user friendly. Eros really needs to adopt the same ideas and way of doing things as Slixa.

That's my gripe with Eros. I am sure you ladies all have your own. And please so I can send Eros one letter with ALL our complaints on it. Please send me your complaints

One thing about me I am not a quitter and I will resend it to them every damn day till they take us seriously and begin to implement changes that make them more consumer/advertiser friendly. Or to atleast give us respectable, detailed feedback.

Thank you and please FORWARD YOUR COMPLAINTS REGARDING EROS TO THIS EMAIL FOR ME

lindacascade70@gmail.com

Let's be heard!

Too many providers, companions sit and complain but do NOTHING to try to get things to change. Do something!

What to look for when choosing your companion/escort

( This is one of my early morning writings so please pardon any typos or blunders..lol)

As most of you know I have been a companion/escort for many years. It has taught me so much about the world and people. I wanted to share with gentlemen some things I believe are important to your safety as clients. Who you choose to spend time with can greatly impact your life and not always in pleasant ways.

Remember sometimes , well actually in life if something is too easy there is a reason for it. So first I am going to give you a list of things to look for then I will explain why and what can happen if you don't.

1.) Does she have web presence? Meaning can you Google her and find anything. Now when I advise this I do not mean just a few postings within one month. I mean over atleast 6 months to be sure she is not an undercover officer or someone who means to rob or harm you. Most legit providers will have several months of researchable ads. Now, we were all new ladies at one time. When dealing with new providers I suggest you look to those who are "piggy backing" off the reputation of a lady you have heard of. Meaning shes recommended by or working with a well known provider.

Web presence can also include and actually should include one of these things as well. Her own personal website, a Twitter account, a personal blog, Instagram etc. Any thing to show you she's a real provider.

2.) Reviews.(BUT LET ME EXPLAIN)NO! You should NOT rely on reviews to make your decision to see a provider based solely off what another mans time with her was like. BUT reviews can be helpful ONLY FOR THIS FOLLOWING REASON. Just to prove she was safe , didn't harm or rob anyone and isn't a cop. They should NEVER be used to decide to see a girl based off another guys opinion. Why? Because there are no two sessions exactly alike, also some men use them just to try to harm a girls reputation when they cannot see a girl or when they have in fact treated a girl badly. So only use reviews just to check the safety of a lady. Nothing more.

3.)Do image searches in Google or any other image search app to be sure she's not using another provider's pics. This seems to be an ongoing, sneaky increasing problem. Don't get catfished.

4.) Be wary of ladies who do ANY of the following. Do not see ladies who do not screen. Remember if she does not care about her own safety and well being she will not care about yours. Do not see ladies who offer bare, again if she does not care about herself she does not care about you. Do not see ladies who give you the exact location down to the exact room number.. NONE of us who are legit make it that easy. We need to, want to watch you arrive to make sure the coast is clear, that you are alone and that there are no cops. If a girl is too willing to let you know exactly where to come, she may be working with the police. Be careful.


NOW, to tell you why all these things are so important.

Should you be hard headed and just listen to your dick instead of your brain and end up choosing the easier lady versus the careful, professional lady you may find yourself arrested, robbed, beaten by a pimp, or even killed OR taking a disease or situation home to your wife, job and family that you cannot escape or rid yourself of.

So gentlemen when choosing a provider THINK WITH YOUR BRAIN NOT YOUR PENIS! No one wants to lose their career, job, family or life over some pleasure and fun. Be careful!!!

xoxo

Storm

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

I am genuinely(not just for pay)Bisexual and have readded 3some Play to my fantasies offered



I used to offer couples sessions until so many couples were simply undercover sting officers. The cops began using it as a way to make us let our guard down easier. I have decided to go back to it. Heres the stipuations

WIFE HAS TO HAVE BEEN THE INITIATOR...MEANING NO HUSBANDS FORCING WIVES OR GIRLFRIENDS TO DO SOMETHING THEY WANT BUT THAT THE FEMALE DIDN'T TRULY WANT HERSELF

both of you must screen individually and I will check it out in detail due to the first sentence in this section.

I prefer to see couples in their own homes for all of our comfort.

NO , I REPEAT NO 2 GUY THREESOMES..ONLY 2 GIRL THREESOMES ARE ALLOWED!

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rates

Couples may also do the fly me to them option( please email me at cfields1970@gmail.com for that)

1 hour couples 400

2 hour couples 550

4 hours (dinner and drinks first)750

Hope to enjoy a sexy, open, fun time with you soon!

470-210-1596

Storm

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My horror story from 2009 regarding CPS and one of my kids ( pls on twitter help another mother by helping with #supportfinley )

This is actually about my story but its to give strength, knowledge and guidance to our other #sexwork sister who has had her child stripped from her arms due to her being a sexworker #supportfinley please spread this hashtag and help her cause. Get her family back together. Being a sexworker as long as not done around our kids does not make us bad mothers. I am the best mother I could have ever been actually due to it allowing me more time to spend as a mother!! go to Twitter please and look up hashtag #supportfinley and help her!

I truly believe in Karma and paying things forward in the universe. I probably shouldn't share this story publicly but if it will help another parent I will.

Lets go back to when I lived in Baltimore. I had just moved from the county to the city and once I moved in my now 28 yr old daughter began school there at Southwestern High School. That school has since been shut down. Anyway, it was winter and she came home and said a girl she had met at school and her family had been evicted had no where to go and could I take them in. Well me being who I was at the time.. I took them in. This woman became family to me.. or so I thought. I allowed her to live with me for 2 years.. I never asked for rent only help with food and cleaning.

Fast forward. I have left Baltimore, this woman who I considered family is now doing well and my finances are crumbling somewhat in Atlanta. I was not prepared for the differences in clientele or finances that ATL would bring, nor was I aware I'd moved to the real estate scam capital. The place me and my kids moved to was in foreclosure, none of the tenants had been told.. I knew I'd soon be looking for a new home and it was summer so I asked her to keep my then 2 yr old child, hey I'd been there for her I thought she'd be there for me.

Things were fine when I first took her there. I even stayed in bmore and worked escorting for a month before heading back to ATL to make sure it was a smooth transition for my baby who I'd never ever really been away from for such a long time. I expected this woman to be as kind to my kid as I'd been to her and her family. She had a boyfriend. He evidently saw me as a meal ticket. She was working for Baltimore City but decided to try to make me pay ALL her bills. I was already sending 150 a week for a nanny for my kid, laundry money and grocery money at this time all my child even wanted to eat was juice, milk, noodles and sandwiches,..shes two.

I hadn't sent notarized paperwork giving her actual guardianship( my parent sure NEVER did when I went to stay with family on summer break) so it didn't occur to me that I needed to. The Maryland CPS worker who Georgia had told to ONLY DO A WELL CHECK.. NOT TO INVESTIGATE... because they just wanted to be sure my child was where I said she was and that she was safe..., told me I had 14 days to get legal paperwork giving guardianship for medical emergency to this woman. around that time the woman I left my princess with told me to come get her she couldn't keep her anymore.. BUT WHAT SHE ACTUALLY DID 2 DAYS BEFORE SHE KNEW I WAS COMING WAS TO TRY TO GET A CHECK FROM THE STATE OR MARYLAND FOR MY KID...she said I'd left her there with no financial support.lies all lies I had western union receipts and green dot paks for days.

So I called my baby several times a day everyday.. and suddenly no one would answer the phone my gut told me something was wrong but I am now back in Georgia no way to get to her. I am going crazy. Monday comes and she calls me cussing me out telling me if I'd of just given her what she and her boyfriend wanted that CPS WOULDNT HAVE REMOVED MY CHILD(keep in mind I was about to be on the way to Maryland as agreed to get my child) Her plan had backfired and I had now lost my child to foster care. I SCREAMED THAT LONG GUT WRENCHING BLOOD CURDLING SCREAMS YOU SEE IN THE MOVIES ONLY IT WAS REAL... my child only had me, only knew of me.. my voice every day and night. I thought my baby she has to hear my voice.

After the panic struck the anger and determination set in. I come from one of the most affluent black families from the Eastern Shore of Maryland all teachers and doctors etc. I had a plan I'd remind them who I was and at the time Myspace was popular so all our family moments and photos to prove who I was as a mom, who we were as a family were online. I had a laptop I immediately contacted the Governor... YES SAME DAY I CONTACTED THE GOVERNORS Office... the secretary called me and she told me she knew who I was that my grandmother who raised me had been her school teacher. She then told me she wasn't supposed to tell me but that this woman I trusted had told CPS all of this and they had had an emergency hearing and placed my child/.

I contacted CPS AND I TOLD THEM MY CHILD MUST WITHOUT QUESTION talk to me each day. They agree , they allow me to call the foster moms home everyday at 830 pm. I then email all the heads of CPS , I THEN PRINT OUT PICS OF EVERY FAMILY MOMENT AND WRITE THE FULL HISTORY OF MY FAMILIES BLOODLINE.. I spend 400.00 on booklets placed in folders and NEXT DAY AIR SHIPPED to the judge and everyone else working the case. I let the court appointed lawyer for my kid know .. I will not lay down and take this and that..they have no idea who's child they took. I demand visits which I make them pay for.. ( its a long battle because I have to get another home, pass home inspection, and they actually put me through the same physical they make adopting non blood parents go thru, yes, even the doctors here in Ga didn't understand it.. its my kid), I make them pay for transportation to all hearings and I win the ability to be able to buy her clothes, gifts and to even have a birthday party for her outside of the facility.

Something you should know about the system.. the more beautiful, well behaved and undamaged your child is , the more money they make off of keeping them and then placing them for adoption. We all know that in Maryland and it was the goal I just was smart enough and did my research enough to win. I had to go thru interstate compact and get Georgia CPS AND MARYLAND CPS to agree to send her back to me due to all the blizzard and rescheduling of cases it took almost 2 years.

Once I got her back , I then made Maryland give me the 2200 for housing and expenses that they said they give to Maryland mothers that they didn't want to give to me since I resided in Ga but I won that too.

When the judge awarded my child back to me .. she told me ..the only mistake Id made was having my child in a different state than me and next time no matter what I am going thru just keep her with me..

The point of all this story I just shared...

when they do this process they make you do background checks, I admitted my sexworker arrests( I also had regs write letters and act like I worked for them, I also made up a company website for a company to say I worked for them and had an additional phone and had a friend pretend to be my boss) so it appeared to all that I had been a sexworker but I also had a job.

Fast forward to 2011 I got busted for prostitution.escorting. I have already been in the system. They never stop watching you even tho legally the case is closed they are like a lingering unseen force that you always fear .. watching from the shadows. I knew that and my probation officer tried to throw me under the bus. The social worker came out after my bust found me to be a great mom, and said she found no problems. NO PROBLEMS,,,, even though I'd just been busted. I have also had a worker come out last year after moving to an all white area ( i mention this because he was doing work for me after a flood and i could tell by his reaction that he hadn't expected us to be a black family)and plumbers who came to fix something for me didn't realize that my then 17 yr old was visiting from a a different state with a different school schedule than Ga and assumed I was negligent and that my kid was not in school. I was very forthcoming with that worker in regard to my past convictions as a sexworker.. she looked around my home told me to send her pics of my kids rooms and house and clothing and food etc just so she could show her supervisor to show her it was a bogus call.

I let her know I ran a group on facebook for CPS corruption and that I had beat the State of Maryland and even made them pay me. (CPS IS NOT THE POLICE.. THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO INVESTIGATE CRIMINAL CASES.. THEY CAN PASS IT TO THE POLICE BUT THEY THEMSELVES HAVE NO JURISDICTION IN THOSE AREAS.. THEY DONT WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT BUT THATS THE LAW)..

I MADE HER very aware she was NOT going to bully me and that that battle with Maryland and how I handled it .. that I was not the momma to go to war with. She never came to my home again!

Being a sexworker alone is not good enough of a reason for them to take your kid. If they do it or try it don't be scared or intimidated, be just the opposite be a knowledgeable, well read opponent and let your attorney know you expect to win.

By law CPS is now required to always have to strive for reunification as the goal. so make sure you reinforce that with them and that you let them know that you are aware of that !

If anyone needs more ideas, tips , on how to handle CPS without feeling pressured, bullied and making sure you let them know you know legally what their scope of investigation is.. please contact me. It was a nightmare but it has allowed me to be a voice and help to others.

Storm

Friday, September 9, 2016

Racism and Prejudice and My REAL thoughts on the National Anthem and the Pledge

First those of you who have already spent time with me ( most of you white)know that I am not someone who dislikes people based on race. I see people as human beings. And I think this is how most people with good hearts and humanity see others. I love all people. Most of my associates are white and I normally live around white people. I see people as people.

The country ( America) seems to be in denial of whats really happening. Whats always been happening.

I recently spoke my opinion on the NFL players protesting by taking a knee as well as the long overdue paperwork given by schools now to give our kids a choice in saying the pledge.

First I want you to try just try to see it as a relationship. imagine people of color as a woman and America as the abusive husband or boyfriend. Would you encourage the woman to continue to be respectful of or to cater to the abusive man?

This is the same.. it truly is. This is about an ongoing negative relationship hundreds of years in the making between people of color and America.

I do not think all Americans are bad or even racists. However we cannot continue to ignore the large amounts that are. I think alot of Americans got very comfortable once they elected a black President and believed all the years of racism had gone away. Actually I saw the amount of hate online increase tremendously the day after Obama took office..( not his fault) but it showed lots of people of color what people really thought finally they became bold enough to say it.

So now here we are 8 years later. We have a crazed bigot running for office and just the amount of supporters and fans he has is sickening. He may have a few and I mean very few good ideas.,but the ugliness of Trumps racism and bigotry overshadows all of it.

Just watching the worlds reality unfold all the black men shot and killed , murdered by the police before being given trials, before even making it to the jail.. speaks volumes. The fact that CNN and other networks decided to hold TV forums to teach black people how to act when pulled over by the police... stop think about that for a second. Why do we need a special set of directions on how to interact with police. Its the police who need to change the way they interact with us.

We are treated as if its illegal to be black. We cannot change the skin we were born in. We can change anything else but being black .. nope cant change that. Sure you can argue that some of the black men and women murdered by the police were criminals but how many laws do some of you break a week.. a day. How many of you have a checkered past or have been arrested? How many of you have a family member or a friend who's been arrested. So wouldn't you expect that person to be arrested , taken to jail and stand before a judge to be judged correctly? I am sure you wouldn't expect them to be murdered before having their day in court.

Why is it excusable and ok when its happening to black America, poor America, latina America?

Now before I actually share my personal thoughts on the anthem and then leave you with some links I wanted to share this.

I don't like doing this and I am sure I will catch some hell for it. But to have you understand the complete ugliness its necessary I share the facts. Another sex worker and I had a rather negative exchange. She stated if I disliked America so much I should leave. To which I responded If my family and I could afford to we would do so and I meant it because America is falling apart and becoming so evil and unjust that I am sure alot of people of all races would love to vacate. However she then went on to explain some psychology to me that I think she assumed I wasn't already aware of not knowing I know quite a bit of psychology myself especially in regard to the development of children and their minds prior to the age of three. Not just because I am a mother but because I am well read in the field and have spent a great deal of time with someone with a PHD on the subject. I was raised also by a child educator of 50 years. Yes it is true that alot of who we are develops due to experience and or lack of experiences and stimuli before the age of 3. I was and am well aware that those are the formidable years. However, there are plenty of kids who grow up with racists, rapists, abusers, drug users who strive and become to be the complete opposite of the monsters who raised them. Of course some people follow in the footsteps or the evil and crazy they are subjected to as kids but plenty more do not. In fact it teaches and drives most of us to be the opposite.. At some point at some age we begin to have our own thoughts, free will and we definitely know and develop a sense of right and wrong unless we are sociopaths! So please do not try to scientifically explain racism and its benefits to me.. oh yes she even went on to say that prejudice is not bad its in fact necessary that without it the human race would have died off long ago. I disagree, natural selection, disease and pollution would have done just fine in keeping our numbers down I am sure of that. So no prejudice is not needed to keep the human race going . Prejudice destroys the human race.. look at the unrest, murders and mess its creating now. Where's the good side to it? I'll wait.

Whats the most disturbing to me about the convo was she told me to not paint her as a racist or prejudice. And honestly that wasn't my thought process. I simply wanted her to understand that since she has not lived as a black person she could not understand our experiences. She then told me and ( this is the main reason why I will never mention her name because mother to mother I still respect boundaries and I would not mention her name especially in light of my next point). The next thing she said was she has a black child. (I myself have 5 kids 2 of whom are mixed race). and as a mother of a black child that's what upsets me the most about prejudice and I cannot as a mother understand how anyone with a black child could be so callous and matter of fact about how America treats its black people. To say prejudice isn't wrong is nuts. What will happen , what will be the words you share with your child the first time she is treated differently by race. Maybe its already happened but I hope it was NOT explained as being acceptable. Nothing about racism is acceptable and I really hope that as a woman and mother to mother that you can become more open minded in the discussion of prejudice and not try to scientifically explain it as being necessary. It is not . It is a dividing factor that should not continue.

Now onto what really led to the debate to begin with . I do not feel as though we should be forced to stand and sing and anthem who's author was strongly racist and even had a part of the original poem that then became the song that directly talked bout slaves and murdering them. That's the part of the story they don't teach us in school. Not one person should sing that song or stand for it regardless of race till everyone of all races are treated fairly. I realize I cannot change everyone's thinking but if we can reach even a few people to see that things have to change I am ok with that. Colin Kaepernick and the other players are doing quiet peaceful protest but yet people are angry , people want to boycott the NFL. . but no one wanted to boycott them for all the abusers, rapists and the NFLs disregard for players killing themselves after years of head injuries. See how insane that is something is very wrong with the world and America today. Me and my kids do not stand unless they want to for it nor do I force them to sing it as I myself stopped singing it years ago.

It is NOT disrespectful to military men and women.There are plenty of people of color military people who see it as we do.

My ex husband, my sons father and my dad are all ex army. I honor them and respect them fully on Veterans Day, and Memorial Day. So let's be clear I respect the service of the men and women who served and risked their lives. Do I honor the military and the rationale behind it as a whole no I do not. but that's another topic based on how they treated the people in my family who served after they got out of the service.

As for the pledge of allegiance. read these words "with liberty and justice for all" this is not true not for people of color and not even among financial class levels. The poor and people of color are left completely out of that statement. Real justice comes in the form of high paid attorneys which is something that alludes most of us. Where is the justice when cop after cop is let off for murdering our sons and daughters? Where is the justice when rapists get out after only three months of jail?

So hell no I don't think there is one thing wrong with not standing, reciting or singing any of it.

You have to give respect to get it. America ( not all of it but lot;s of it) does not respect people of color . Those are the real facts.

There are no facts or excuses that will make that acceptable so please none of you ever try to explain that again.

Here's two links that will educate you , I hope you'll be open minded enough to read them.

http://www.theroot.com/articles/history/2016/07/star-spangled-bigotry-the-hidden-racist-history-of-the-national-anthem/

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/king-stand-star-spangled-banner-article-1.2770075

or copy and paste

http://www.theroot.com/articles/history/2016/07/star-spangled-bigotry-the-hidden-racist-history-of-the-national-anthem/

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/king-stand-star-spangled-banner-article-1.2770075

and screenshots of the texts I received just incase anyone decides to act as though I am crazy. Feel free to click to enlarge them )



And these screenshots from an Article on the Star Spangled Banner by Shaun King



#staywoke

and all though #alllivesmatter people tend to forget that so again #blacklivesmatter

To my National Non Local Readers Just wanted to let you know you can now FLY me to YOU!

You may now fly me to you as long as the following requirements are met

Must be within the United States.

For the Canadian Gentlemen feel free to fly me as far north as Seattle or Northern New York and meet me there !

You must cover the following expenses for my trip to you:

Cost of round trip airplane tickets

Cost of lodging (unless we are staying at your upscale home)

Cost of meals etc

( THESE THINGS ARE IN ADDITION TO NOT INCLUDED IN MY DONATIONS)

You must also screen completely and you must book this atleast 2 weeks in advance as I am a parent and will need to make arrangements for my children.

** YOU MUST PAY AN UPFRONT 50 PERCENT DEPOSIT ON THE COST OF THIS ARRANGEMENT UPFRONT. IF YOU CANCEL YOU WILL FORFEIT THE DEPOSIT. JUST SO WE ARE CLEAR. THIS IS NON NEGOTIABLE. AND IF I CANCEL I WILL REFUND YOU MEANING IF SOMETHING HAPPENS WITHIN 48 HOURS OF MY BOOKED FLIGHT I WILL REFUND YOUR DEPOSIT TO YOU.**

Look forward to meeting more of you soon!

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Part 2 on my blog on being a BBW companion!

Don't get me wrong, I see some very comfortable,upscale men. I also see hard working "normal" guys with upscale attitudes and tastes. What I find concerning and it's not jealousy or envy because as I have stated many times , I have been slim and I have been the size I am now ( which is a smaller BBW). Back to the point. I am not envious or jealous of the ladies who are slim and treated to international trips and exquisite items. I am merely disappointed in the thoughts of society that lead to women of my size not being placed in that same high threshold.

I find it saddening that society thinks companions or even regular non sex worker women have to be a size 0-6 to be arm candy. I feel as though any man should be lucky, fortunate and excited to have me as his arm candy every bit as much as my slimmer counterparts.

Its interesting because I watch online ads, and read online forums and there are plenty of "chubby chasers" the issue is that the public opinion and their friends mock them for it. That leads to them being less likely to book the same kind of high end public date.. And I really do think that even the ones who "chubby chase" somehow have been trained to view the larger ladies as ,"easier", less worthy in some fashion. Its very unsettling.

Skinny or slender, athletic, doesn't necessarily equal HIGH END.. or classy just the same as BBW OR FULL FIGURED doesn't equal LOW END OR DESPERATE.

Providers and even real life non sex work women should be judged on character,intelligence,bedroom skills, conversation skills and perhaps upkeep and facial beauty( that I can understand the face is important no matter the size) but to judge a woman's worth and how shes treated solely on her dress or jean size is just so backwards thinking to me. I just began my consulting business but I swear my second large goal is to begin an UPSCALE AGENCY for BBW ladies of all races and sizes and NOT TO BE A CRAZED, EXPLOITING PIMP , but to seriously, genuinely, manage, teach and fairly treat any woman who works under me and show her that she is WORTH the same treatment and price( for her time not her as a person) as anyone else. I don't want to exploit and Id only want 30 percent and that's just for time and energy spent on teaching self worth and administrative I'd do for them.

But the conversation needs to be had among men and women and the world needs to start viewing and treating BBW and full figured ladies with the same respect and regard and quality that it treats other ladies with.

Your's truly Storm

Very Unstable, rude, disrespectful nutcase job. Do not see! Do no see!

The rest of the info on this guy is on my blacklist section which is password protected.

Ladies you may email me directly ( must be a provider who I can look up and prove) and I will give you the password info.

AGAIN hes a real nutjob , disrespectful and just wont stop w harassing phone texts

John Flott

404-893-8175

He lives in Camp Creek area of Atlanta.

Be safe ladies!

Storm

And to any other man who thinks he can talk to me and any other sexworker crazy just because we are sexworkers.. and think your words can break me.. peep the GIF below

Monday, September 5, 2016

Take Care of Yourselves Ladies

One of our very own here on both Twitter and Verify Him has been diagnosed with breast cancer. This person is such a tremendous advocate and protector of all women. She is so strong and courageous and outspoken. I feel like shes my sister from another race and another mother. I was saddened and concerned recently when she told me of her situation. I check in with her ever so often to make sure shes ok. She asked me to write this up and share it with you all. NOT to seek charity or anything like that but hopefully to protect the rest of us from what she is not going through.

Her cancer and her body type require special doctors that her state,city, region do not have. While she will not has not asked for any charity or help she doesn't have the funds to travel and get the serious care she needs. So I as a woman , a friend am telling the rest of you if you can or want to start some type of fund for her.. let me know and I will let her know and hopefully she will accept the offerings of support.

But here's what she wanted me to share in her own words...

From an anonymous sexworker Sister Going thru the battle of her life... for her life....

Sept 2 2016 From a friend to me

"Also, could u post a message to our fellow sista's demand that regardless of perfect health, weight and family history, get your tots checked ASAP. Make sure they at least have a baseline mammogram and to start getting them at 35 years old. Not the recommended age of 50.

It's free. Every state has an organization for breast cancer. Alabama is "The Alabama Breast and Cervical Cancer" they'll pay for everything and even reconstruction. Either the whole thing of your deductibles which ever u need help with. It takes all of 4 minutes for a mammography and a total of 10-15 minutes to be in and outta there. They are fast.

Too many people getting cancer tumors. My best friend had another brain tumor cut out this year. It's just so many!

And only organic. They feeding cows and our veggies synthetic hormones and this is causing most of it. Thought I was eating healthy but naw I was eating toxins whilst downing my milk and meat and veggies and fruit. Assholes needa be put in prison. "

I hope those of it reading will take her advice and also be supportive of each other as Cancer affects so many of us.

And to you my friend if you're reading .. I told you I'd spread the word. Take care and Keep me updated.

Saturday, September 3, 2016

Help me to finish my Classes and Move forward! Read inside for details (TUITION NEEDED)



Happy Labor Day Weekend!

I hope all of you are doing well. I am using my blog platform to reach out and hopefully aquire some assistance paying off the last 500.00 so I can be given my Cna certification back by the state of Georgia.

I will be returning to the regular work force very shortly. I will still leave my websites in place for situations when I need larger finances.

Basically I will still be available but a lot less frequently once I begin work. Also once I begin working rates will be firm. They will be higher as once I begin working I will only wish to meet about 3 clients per month and their donations must equal an amount I deem viable for my well being.

But back to the matter at hand currently. I am seeking assistance Immediately with the last 500.00 on my CNA fees.

You may meet me in person and have a session to donate or you may make contributions via paypal or Western Union.

I had to interrupt finishing for the last two months and I really want to finish now and pass my State test but the fees I owe must be paid first.

Thank you for reading.

And this isnt a scam the proof is in the pic above.

Thanks

Storm

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

My life is at a crossroads and I am unapologetic for my choices and my choice to come....

As most of you have read time and time again as I have always been very transparent about having a partner.. I met someone 8 yrs ago.. and I immediately in my heart knew he was a special person. A special someone if you will. It took a while but eventually the friendship and enjoying each other turned into love.

He came into the picture eyes wide open knowing what I do professionally. A good part of the reason I stayed in Ga so long and loved him and respected him so hard was because he was such a God send to have accepted me, my kids, and my lifestyle and profession.

My world centered completely around him and my kids. I am quite a regular woman and mother when not in the public (internets) eye. I want to be loved, cared about and understood just like any other woman.

I thought I had that.. I was his backbone through everything hes ever been through. I helped him mature and grow as a person. And I guess the time has come where he has outgrown me. Ive been at this crossroad before I supported my ex husband years ago and once he had his self confidence back and a good job he was similar in that he somehow stopped respecting me and my feelings.. I feel the same now about my present situation.

Men always ask me why dont you let a man take care of you. Well I finally allowed this boyfriend Im discussing here to do that. We began splitting the bills down the middle.. and he began adding up every dollar every cent and just being displeased with everything.

My issue is this... its not that I am choosing sexwork or the life over him. Its that I am choosing the well being and survival of my kids over him. I had hoped he loved me and my kids enough to never put me in the situation of having to choose. But as a parent.. I wont see them go without just to make his male ego feel better.

So here we are at the impass. I think back to all the ladies and men who swore you couldnt have this job and have love. Well I know plenty of companions who do.. so it is possible. I just guess for me I have finally fallen on the side everyone warned of.. where I guess it was all lies and he didnt truly accept me as much as I truly accepted him with all his flaws.

Atleast this time I see it coming. I can prepare and be ready to move forward. I know it will hurt awhile . I am sure I will shed some tears but.. at the end of the day.. as life as shown me I cant depend on anyone but myself.

For anyone to think I can simply survive off minimum wage with 3 kids to support one of whom just started college and live paycheck to paycheck and never see another client like right now not in a bit once Im prepared..but right now because its what they want and need is selfish and insane to me.

Love isnt like that. Love doesnt give ultimatums to someone who is providing for her family. In his exact new words what I do is pointless, I dont make enough to justify it he says. We all go thru ups and downs in this business. hell in any facet of life.. but what you dont do if you really love someone is blame everything on them when truthfully you cannot really help them they way it would take for them to be able to have the means to just walk away.

I have been in a down these last few months.. it happens but I havent let it make me angry, depressed or sad. .I have kept fighting . The only thing making me sad is how my loved one views my profession and apparently me.

Well thats the end of my venting. I just wish I were not faced with such a terrible hard decision .. but one that I know I must make.

STorm

Monday, August 29, 2016

My Review Policy!! Thank you for following my wishes and rules.

Gentlemen please note these reviews shown here are reflective of when I allowed public/forum reviews. I no longer want, allow or participate in the review community and this is by choice NOT by force. click the links on this page regarding The Erotic Review (TER) for more info on that. You may feel free to email me or text me your input on your time with me and I will add those to this portion of my site with your info blurred. But again I must insist.. do NOT review me on any public sites. Honestly Its best for my legal protection as well as yours.You MAY also use the yellow banner link and click that to submit a review via my private Tumblr Page. Thank you for adhering to this policy and not doing public reviews!

Sunday, August 28, 2016

There should never be mention of donation or services ! Reading is fundamental! Don't be a dummy! Legal info enclosed!

Because myself and other ladies are SOOOOO absolutely tired of explaining why we cannot will not discuss money or actions. I personally wont even after screening you.. or even after I've seen you a few times because I've had the misfortune of wearing a lovely set of silver bracelets and I don't mean from Tiffany & CO. So men take a seat and read this article. These are not my words and I'm including the original link as well. But, its vital info I think so many ladies and men don't understand.

http://criminal-law.freeadvice.com/criminal-law/violent_crimes/solicitation-of-prostitution.htm


Solicitation of prostitution is technically the request to one person by another to perform a sexual act in exchange for a fee. However, an actual solicitation of prostitution charge usually encompasses a wider set of circumstances with harsher penalties and punishments than the basic charge. A person charged with solicitation of prostitution should understand the nature of these charges, the defenses, and all of the possible punishments before deciding how to resolve their case.

Solicitation of prostitution does not require a completed act of sexual conduct. The mere agreement or offer to complete a sexual act in exchange for a fee (i.e. money) is enough to support a solicitation charge. This also means that both parties to the agreement—the person offering a sexual service and the person accepting the service, can be charged with prostitution. This is the most basic type of solicitation charge. However, solicitation charges can encompass a broader type of conduct.

If a person is involved in the negotiations described above, they can be charged as a party to the offense of solicitation of prostitution. Most people commonly think of the third person involved as the “Madame” or “pimp.” The third person can be anyone, though that helps with the solicitation. This third person or “promoter” usually faces a stiffer penalty range than the original two actors to the agreement. Defenses to Solicitation of Prostitution Charges

For a basic solicitation charge, the defenses are usually focused on whether or not an agreement actually existed. Essentially the defense is that the two people were discussing having a sexual encounter, but the encounter was not contingent of the exchange of a fee. Another defense is to simply counter that the solicitation was not for sexual relations, but rather a “flirtation.” This defense strives to refute the intent and fee requirements of a basic solicitation of prostitution charge.

The reasons a person was offering sexual conduct in exchange for a fee may also constitute a defense. If a person was compelled by force or threats by another person, such as a pimp, then they might successfully prevent the prosecution from making a case that they intended to to offer sex in exchange for a fee by proving coercion by this third party. Other possible defenses vary by state statues, but some states will specifically cut off certain defenses. The first defense that many people point to is that a sexual act was never completed, just offered. Because solicitation punishes the mere asking, the fact that a sexual act was not completed will not be a viable defense.

The second applies to sting operations and the use of decoy prostitutes or clients. These can involve undercover officers posing in either capacity. The common defense is that because the other person never actually intended to enter the agreement since they were an officer, the defendant should then have the defense of impossibility or entrapment. Both have been consistently rejected as available defenses in most states because, again, solicitation only requires a defendant to ask the question, not complete the act of prostitution.

REMEMBER ENTRAPMENT IS THE FOLLOWING.. SO ONCE WE LADIES PUT ADS AND WEBSITES UP NO ONE IS COERCING US OR TALKING US INTO BREAKING THE LAW.... SO DON'T ASSUME THAT DEFENSE WILL WORK. IN MOST PLACES IT WILL NOT.

CLICK TO ENLARGE TO SEE DEFINITION



AND MEN THE WHOLE IDEA THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT YOUR'E PAYING FOR.. YOUR'E PAYING FOR OUR TIME.. AND COMPANIONSHIP. YOU ARE NOT PAYING FOR INDIVIDUAL ACTS AND IF YOU READ THE AD, THE SITE AND DID YOUR HOMEWORK.. ITS SIMPLE WHATS UNDERSTOOD NEED NOT BE DISCUSSED. ONE DAY THE GIRL YOU VISIT MAY BE WORKING WITH THE POLICE OR AN ACTUAL UNDERCOVER OFFICER.

ONLY DISCUSS TIME BOTTOM LINE!

READ HER SITE AND DISCUSS NOTHING MORE!

Saturday, August 27, 2016

Will all my fellow ,sexy,BBW ladies please stand up! Get your coins!

Hello all..as we near the end of Summer 16.

I have written a few articles regarding how beauty comes in all shapes and sizes but I feel I need to go there again.

While all Bbw ladies catch some hell over not being the norm and not giving into societies beauty standards(btw years ago curvy,round women were the beauty standards and in some cultures they still are) ...it seems BBW'S of color are the most ridiculed and ostracized in the sex work industry.

I see it all the time in ads and emails and I find it to be insane. The melanin in any WOC skin allows her to age slower to appear younger and more beautiful longer...not trying to offend my fair skinned friends just keeping it 100! Women of color come in all shapes sizes colors ..and we are ALL beautiful.

Which brings me to this ..(although first I want to say it again I have never been prouder to be a sexy, full figured BBW. I look through my twitter timeline and there are so many full figured ,robust ,curvy real women who are sexworker's and fly as hell that I am proud of all of us..we rock!) But sadly here in Atlanta and again unfortunately its race specific. So many of my fellow Black bbw's have allowed Atlanta's hobbyist and boards and trolls to make them think that they must promote themselves as classless head queens and degrade themselves to get paid. Then on top of it they have been made to feel like no one will pay a BBW more than 80.00. Ladies we are a specialty , we have a niche. We are not the usual barbie and we need to learn to use that to our advantage.

Get flattering pics taken, make sure you and your photog know the correct angles and lighting to capture you in a sexy fashion. Get nice tasteful clothes and lingerie for your photo shoots . Maintain your beauty and gear no matter your size. Wear figure flattering sexy attire. They make it for us too. DON'T settle for less!

And Ive heard a shit ton of guys say this. "Your'e a sexy pretty big girl. Not really my type but your beautiful. Ive heard big girls give the best head. How much would you take just for some head!" Ladies that is NOT a compliment its a thinly veiled insult.

It says your'e a big girl so your'e not good enough for me to do anything else with..but you must be desperate so I'll do you a favor and let you suck my dick!..Ladies tell those cheap,arrogant,condescending men to kick rocks and beat their own shit.

As long as you behave professionally. As long as you keep yourself well kept and sexy, as long as you have some refinement and can hold and intelligent conversation on any manner of subjects..You TOO no matter your size can charge and GET way more than what these guys have brainwashed you to believe.

Old women used to say "only a dog wants a bone. Real men need meat".

For the record I'm not picking on or downing the thin ladies. I was a size zero till age 28 then a size 8 then after age 36 and kid number 5 a size 14. I'M STILL A 14.

My measurements are 40dd 34 40. Oh by the way when slim i was a B cup so see ..the babies and the pounds gave me some vavvoom lol.

The point here is real men i truly believe appreciate the company and passion of all beautiful women regardless of size so long as you are THE TOTAL PACKAGE. That means intelligence ,class ,grace and sexy. Be those things and raise your rates!

Get your money my fellow Bbw sisters of all races and ages. Don't let these other companions/escorts or these clients make you think you are not equal to the finest of the fine. YOU ARE!

BE EMPOWERED. DEMAND RESPECT AND YOUR WORTH.

xoxoxo

STORM



Thursday, August 25, 2016

A negative client experience today Aug 25 2016

If you know me you know I screened. He checked out. We spoke on the phone he seemed mannerly. He was african and no offense. I find African men to be tedious and hard to deal with sometimes because of their perception of American Black Women but I saw him , it was an exception.

He picks me up.. were off to his house. Drives a little crazy but were on our way. Singing talking getting to know one another in the car.

His sister calls and says shes home .. no biggie. UNTIL we pull up to his home and a car is there and I say who's car. He says my sisters... First strike. I say I normally do not entertain while other relatives are home. He says its ok she won't know how we met. So we walk in.. shes cooking she was friendly enough I say hello. On to his bedroom..smh



We get to his room. Bed unmade, no preparation at all for having company.

Im still trying to be nice at this point!

Then I say to him .. no disrespect .. and sorry not that I don't trust you, but my donation must be placed out before our time together begins. I am not going to be in a situation where afterwards you do not have my donation. He keeps avoiding the situation saying "don't worry about it. African men are not like that. trust me: .. no sir I need to see my money. Then he calls his cousin a MALE cousin and says I picked the lady up.. They then talk in African. and this is when I fucking snapped.

I tell him at no time is it cool first of all to let that many people know who I am or that I am there for my safety. He then explains hes not feeling well and he and his cousin will drive me home after our time together. He says I'm not going to have sex w you here's 70.00 ( the agreed upon donation was way more than 70. I think he didnt really have it and I caught him so he called the cousin) so you trust me I just want to chill. To which I let him know ( btw hes still preaching about how african men are different, how his sister saw me, how he has a mom and sisters , how his cousin is younger.. all of which should make me believe they wont hurt me) well fuck that. I don't believe that.. and even if they are harmless... at this point its the disrespect of assuming its ok to include another male when I'm a female alone regardless of if its just for a ride.

Well at this point I basically demanded and screamed cursing him out till he took me home.. alone him no cousin. I got 70.00 for my time wasted. But hes still blacklisted for the damn fuckery, and setup I suspect they were actually trying to accomplish not realizing I am too strong for that.

I don't play games and NEVER try to change my agreement and def never try to put me in a situation where there are TWO men. I don't get down like that and its an instant blacklist offense even if you pay me for time wasted. Period.

I could go on and on and add more details but I think this is enough. Needless to say once back to my home I needed a glass of Merlot to get my temper in check. He came real close to unleashing full fledged Beast Storm today!

Men dont be this guy!!

Sheka Bangura

404-542-3555

404-542-3555

his home is in Forest Park GA

Works as a construction contractor

I had a lovely dinner date/companionship appointment with a wonderful gent Tuesday night..........

Initially upon him dropping me back off after our lovely few hours together. I thought .. what a wonderful date. And for me honestly it was. I replayed the evening over and over again in my head. He was delightful with a droll sense of humor, very professional , very educated, a door opener.. I really found him to be a wonderful dinner date.

After dinner we went to a very nice upscale boutique hotel in the area where he was staying for business. He was visiting from Maryland.

I wanted to write this article today because I think while we both gave it 100 percent to satisfy and keep each other happy and comfortable during the session ... I think there were miscommunications.

The session for the most part was a massage session altho there were a few more intimate moments as well. We seemed to be enjoying each other. Our senses of humor and I think our way of communicating on a whole were slightly different but Id say it was two mature people learning about one another

As I was doing the massage that question got asked "What can I do to turn you on? What can I do to make you feel good?"

I know you gentlemen are trying to be courteous, caring when you ask that question. I get it. But for me as a companion I hear screeching tires in my head or a record needle being picked up scratching the record..lol. I don't like to be asked that It makes it awkward. Here's why. While I am friendly, warm , compassionate and passionate, it is still very much a professional meeting between you and I. It's a fun meeting but its still professional.

If you want to try to do something to please me .. simply go for it.. I am very outspoken and I will tell you if I don't like it.. then you as a gentleman can stop. However, do not ask me for a short list of what turns me on as I am in the middle of engaging with you. It totally ruins the mood and takes things from natural feeling to awkward. Not to sound rude, but I am providing a service so my answer to that questions is always going to be. .."this is not about me , this is about you. I am happy making sure my client leaves happy". That is the only reply I will give to that question.

I find as in the other night when I give that very frank answer, the excitement drops and the gentleman feels as tho I'm not interested. I am interested. I was pleasing you and you stopped me midstream to ask a question .. the mood breaks.. but then I am a true professional so I go back to pleasuring you because if you are a great guy I want to treat you as such. I just think now after replaying the evening that once our first portion of our time in the room together was done he didn't know what to do. I trying to non verbally show him that he still had more time remained "comfortable" on the bed warmly speaking with him and continuing to be engaging. Eventually as we were talking he decided to get dressed. ( again I was in no rush.. the time with him was overall wonderful , I just didn't want to rush him and I honestly think he didn't know what to do ) So I said to him I am not rushing you.. you have more time with me I am just giving you a moment to rest up etc. He said he too was just relaxing. But I can tell after years of being a companion that again.. after that 'what can I do to turn you on?" question things were a little off.

For me to be passionate and it flow naturally please gents don't ask me things like "what can I do to turn you on?", "do you think my dick is big enough","so how long have you been doing this?" Any of those three questions RUINS the mood every time. IT JUST MAKES IT AWKWARD.

At the end of the day.. acting natural and just doing what you would normally do when with a lady in a bed is how to do things. If a girl doesn't like something as you are doing it she will let you know. If she states after you attempt it that she doesn't like it.. move on do or try something else. Just don't ask and make it weird.

I really really liked and enjoyed him. I did send him an email to let him know how wonderful an evening it was and also how wonderful a guy he was. He overall was a delight!!!

Storm

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Things and the times they are a changin ! 2 NEW SELFIES AUG 26 2016

NEW PICS TWO SELFIES TAKEN ON AUGUST 26 TH 2016

((( TODAY AUGUST 28TH IS LAST DAY FOR SPECIALS THEY WILL END AT 6PM TODAY ))TEXT 4702101596)))

I am currently pretty low volume already and the numbers are about to go lower. I am just about ready to go back to medical work.. finally. Life happens and there have been several road blocks but. moving forward.

Due to this I anticipate about 4 days a week "civie" work and then 3 days a week escort/companionship work.

You will need to also learn to book in advance and to also ADHERE to my new schedule once it is posted on my site

I currently cannot host. Currently clients must pick me up and host at their homes. I normally do NOT like hotel settings and will not go to a hotel with a gentleman unless I am certain he is a business traveler and after several days of getting to know one another and me checking all your screening info out and personally verifying it. Screening is required for all clients so that shouldnt come as a shocker.

ON LONGER MEETINGS CLIENTS ARE EXPECTED TO COVER THE COST OF DINNER AND DRINKS AND WHEREVER OUR OUTING IS. THE COST OF THE EXPENSES OF YOU BEING A TRUE GENTLEMEN IS NEVER TO COME OUT OF MY FEE FOR MY TIME! (dinner and drinks are expected as part of all multi hour sessions over 2 hours.

I will always be dressed casually, yet attractively as the whole universe doesnt need to know that we are on a "business" date lol. I strive to not make other people notice what our arrangement must be. It will make for a more enjoyable comfortable outting for us both. Then after dinner once back at your home or room( out of town gents only or men visiting Atlanta for business only)... then I'll change into something more erotic.

Rates for longer dates

these longer sessions over 4 hours must be booked 24 HOURS IN ADVANCE I CANNOT .. CANNOT DO SHORT NOTICE ON SESSIONS OVER 4 HOURS. ALSO ALL OVERNITE DATES MUST FINISH AT 4 AM DUE TO MY PARENTAL RESPONSIBILITIES)

(these rates are non negotiable. Please be a gentleman and respect them)

one hour session special 120/non gfe or 200 gfe

2 hours 350 non gfe

2 hours 450 gfe

4 hours 500

6 hours 700

8 hours 1000



two new reboots of my other sites will roll out within the next 45 days so be looking for that and new pics around that time!!

Have a great rest of the week! I have an awesome dinner/multi hour date with a wonderful gent this evening. I encourage more of you to book that way. It really sets the tone and once a provider/companion feels like shes being treated like a queen you can guarantee youll be treated like a king :)

Storm

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Monday, August 22, 2016

Regarding White lives matter VS black lives matter ( insanity runs rampant)

#whitelivesmatter is trending on Twitter and its disgusting and insulting point blank. Dont like my opinion. Keep if moving!

First once again for the trolls and idiot committee. I have 2 mixed race kids. I myself am literally black, native american and white. I do not dislike white people. Most of the people I spend my time with are caucasian. It was always that way even in school. I choose to live normally around white communities, although I am currently for the last month in a more black area. But anyone who knows me knows I love all races. BUT that doesn't mean that I wont speak facts or that I will forget that I am a black woman and not speak on injustices that I find disrespectful and sickening. I am a straight shooter and I speak facts. If you cannot handle facts and trust and are expecting me to bow down and go along w the masses.. I am not that lady.



I know this is my escort blog. But I express all of me here all the time. Consider it my public diary and thoughts if you will. So here we go!

I would never be able to voice this correctly in 140 so here goes. First to the idiot committee. All human beings matter.

The problem is the minority of white people NOT the majority but the crazed leftist minority of white people who still see black americans, mexicans, muslims etc beneath them or as less than them.

Plenty of America was built on the blood, flesh, pain and breaking down of ethnic slaves, servants and people white america used.

most blacks are well aware that our own fellow Africans sold us into Slavery. So there are no excuses made for that . It was disgusting! And plenty of Africans see African Americans as beneath them as well which is a whole nother disgusting form of racism to be discussed another time.

But know this. YOU DO NOT NEED TO SAY WHITE LIVES MATTER. I think anyone looking at America knows White Lives Matter.

But, based on how blacks and other ethnic groups are treated in all facets of life especially the so called impartial criminal justice system. Don't try to make it about you all. All of Americas history has been based off of reminding us all how much White Lives Matter.

What you deem humorous , satire etc is plain insulting !

But since you cannot imagine our experience as POC while you sit on your sidelines just disliking a cause that you fundamentally cannot understand, You decide to try to make it about you.

LOL again for the masses .. White lives matter. .we are soooooo aware. The issue is that you dont , cannot see the issue with us even having to say BLACK LIVES MATTER. In 2016 we as people should not have to remind you to see our lives as valid and important.

and in closing come thru my mentions with some bullshit and GET BLOCKED instantly. I don't entertain trolls and people who want to pick fights.

Also. I am very educated. And Know my way around a computer. I am not the young lady that you want to begin an internet battle with.

have a great week!

Just some tidbits and random thoughts from the mind of Storm

Good Top of the week to you. I am currently experiencing difficulties with seductivestorm.com and prostatepleasures will be launched anew in about 2 weeks. Bear with my process please and keep up w me here or twitter.

So this posting is like a smorgasbord of thoughts and info over the last few days.

First to the ladies if you are not on VERIFY HIM you need to be. Its one of the very best screening resources out there and between the police ,and the other crusaders and the nutcases and rapists.. we need to be diligent in screening!

So again if you arent on verify him. Get on Verify Him.

As for my thoughts.
Men I wanted to share a few things with you because some of you are so sweet but you still don't know or understand boundaries and whats offensive and whats not.

When I am in a session with you,I do not what to hear the word pussy or cock..Some ladies are cool w that I am not! I have always hated the word pussy, cunt, cock. I am perfectly okay with cooch,vagina, vajayjay. Pussy just sounds gross to me as does cunt, cock. Penis or dick are fine.

I am an educated grown adult woman. My name is clear on all my media, as well as on my ads. Please do not call me "girl". As a woman of color I DO find it offensive.

PLEASE do not make it awkward by asking what turns me on! Again do not ask what turns me on. I am providing a service where my concern is two things. You having an amazing experience that leaves you satisfied and me making money. we arent going to date or get married.Keep it simple

Your board status.. and what you deem to be "important" in light of how many reviews you have done and "being the big guy on campus" do not impress me at all . Keep it humble.

Excuses for screening will not be tolerated. I give too many ways of screening for you to not be able to comply with atleast one!

When I dirty talk and I do .. its in the context of you being submissive to me while I am dominating you (fetish sessions only I do not dominate my normal sessions. However, I do control all my appointments. My body,my rules)

Do not ask me for bare... do not ask me for bare!! This one should be self explanatory but here in Atlanta people love to share diseases similar to free candy. I don't want any of what you have to offer. Keep the madness and diseases to yourself. PEOPLE STD'S AND HIV STILL EXIST... don't let these designer drugs and wanting to feel skin to skin make you stupid and a statistic.

DO NOT SEND ME A DAMN DICK PIC. ITS GROSS AND ITS IMMATURE AS HELL. DON'T DO IT . DON'T SEND ME A DICK PIC. DON'T SEND ME GRAPHIC EXPLICIT MESSAGES! BE A GENTLEMAN!

So one of my regs, really put his foot in his mouth. I was talking with Him on our drive back to my place after our date. I was discussing my life prior to escorting.. and he stopped driving... turned in awe and said "you worked a real job before?!?!?" I mean he was amazed. Then he said "most girls this is all they have ever done" so I explained to him I have done medical work and I was the first full time licensed realtor in Maryland and made a local magazine there because of that in 1996. Gentlemen we are not all woman who have no other training and no other talents. I went to college fro 2 yrs before deciding to be full time mom. I have had a husband... I began escorting after a divorce in 2001. Again we are not dummies!

The point is men be mannerly, don't make assumptions based on the other ladies you have seen. I am me. I am a unique experience and personality. I am insulted when lumped into your TV version or thought up version of who I or any other sexworker is.

BE RESPECTFUL!

I hope everyone has an amazing week. Come see me to relax!

Storm

Saturday, August 20, 2016

Preference or type is one thing. Racism is something different..this is a crazy insane racist

While I truly believe all races have beautiful people and we are all just the human race. I understand "preference" I dont think race should be part of preference but thats only my opinion.

But if you are polite and non insulting of other races .. so be it.

What I have zero tolerance for is racism!

Its 2016 imagine how much further along, and advanced we be if there were no such thing as prejudice and we all worked together for the good of the human race.

So this RACIST BLACKLIST was blacklisted about 2 mos ago and then decided to begin his bullshit again today.Convo's and screenshot attached.

678-887-6486

Blue_ghost

racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 8/20/16 10:19 AM 12 minutes ago

racist blacklist: Hey lady that needs money for rent I need to know, how,you look.And is you fat or not. 78 percent of black women in America are fat I hate,fat,women. So if you weight more than 139 pounds,im not interested 10:18 AM Me: not even going to tell you what race i am because i am of the human race. and even if im white i find your comments DISGUSTING. what a moron. 10:19 AM Call Text more▼

Blue_ghost racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 7/4/16 9:39 PM 6 weeks ago

racist blacklist: Instead of getting a job 9:39 PM Call Text more▼

Blue_ghost Me to racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 7/4/16 9:39 PM 6 weeks ago

Me: pimped girls usually dont have sites and again STOP with the racist shit. wow. how insulting. I would never meet you and NO most ladies on backpage are not PIMPED stop stereotyping girls bye 9:18 PM

racist blacklist: Lots of girls on bAckpage are hoeing for pimps you dont know what you talking about. Black women are stupid and weak anywAy thats why they sell pussy 9:39 PM

Call Text more▼ Blue_ghost

racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 7/4/16 5:37 PM 6 weeks ago

racist blacklist: Most girls on backpage are controlled by a black pimp 5:37 PM Call Text more▼

Blue_ghost racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 7/4/16 5:36 PM 6 weeks ago

racist blacklist: I will go to seductive storm.com But are you under a pimp. Most backpage how are under a pimp 5:36 PM Call Text more▼

Blue_ghost racist blacklist Blocked (678) 887-6486 - mobile 7/4/16 11:08 AM 6 weeks ago

racist blacklist: Hey pretty girl I see two gorgeous body girls name tasty and the other with a nice booty and sexy tits which one needs the $1400 bAd to move. Both girls look real good 10:28 AM

racist blacklist: I like tasty too she looks good to eat and the other one booty looks good 10:29 AM

Me: Goodbye pls dont contact me again thanks 10:30 AM Me: I have no time for bs 10:30 AM racist blacklist: This,is the first time I text you. Why you so angry 10:32 AM Me: I Dont need to hear shit about another girl 10:34 AM racist blacklist: I can give you $120 dollars . 10:34 AM racist blacklist: Stop cussing baby im trying to date you I like your naked body 10:35 AM

Me: There are NO naked pics of me anywhere nor would there be 10:36 AM racist blacklist: I just saw two girls in the ad. I like girls who get me instantly hard. You sexuly excites me 10:36 AM Me: What the hell are you talkIng about i work alone i dont hang with other chicks. So no you are wrong. I am always alone. Do not contact me again 10:37 AM

racist blacklist: Well almost naked I see some of your thighs and some of your tits. But I see you need some money . Well maybe I read the ad wrong 10:38 AM racist blacklist: But look can we hook up 10:38 AM

Me: I dont talk about sex. I only discuss time. And if you keep talking like that we will never meet 10:40 AM

racist blacklist: You too damn mean you look good you got a,great looking body I would love to spend about two hours of you in the bed $200 dollars cash but you scare me because your too angry and mean 10:44 AM

Me: i am not angry BUT the way you are talking is what gets both men and women locked up. its an illegal conversation and I wont talk that way with any of you 10:45 AM racist blacklist: Okay I understand 10:47 AM

racist blacklist: Well can I come and take you to lunch or bring you some nice roses its nothing wrong with us talking and watching a movie together 10:49 AM

Me: Lets simply say...that well spend time together i prefer to spend time privately at my home. First i need to verify who you are and be sure you arent the police. Do you have facebook or linkedin. Or send face pic 10:52 AM

racist blacklist: Im no police baby I work as a janitor and I own my cleaning services. Some girls,ask me to send them a picture of my penis. 10:57 AM racist blacklist: I dont jave facebook 10:58 AM

Me: A cop can send naked pics acop can even fuck you...the only way to prove what someone is is with proving their job info 10:59 AM

Me: If you run a cleaning business i should be able to google your number and find it...which i cannot..so thats why i am asking for proof 11:00 AM racist blacklist: You the first girl that I met off backpage that is this scary . I the one that should be skeptical of you because you might be a police lady your self 11:02 AM

racist blacklist: When I date white girls I never have a problem with them. They dont be scary like black women 11:04 AM

Me: First i dont like racists remarks. Second. Were in the south the police wont target the white girl as fast. Im black and im not going to jail on craziness 11:05 AM Me: My customers screen and LEGIT real girls screen. A girl who doesnt care about her own safety does NOT care about yours be mindful of that take care 11:06 AM

racist blacklist: You wants too much personal information and you have a mean bad temper have a nice day 11:07 AM

racist blacklist: Your right 11:08 AM

Me: lol i am known as one of the sweetest escorts in the area.. no temper but i am careful and since you think i was hard on you .. this is what all my other REAL CUSTOMERS give me to meet me www.seductivestorm.com/booking now take care. .and good luck seeing the unsafe girls youll be contacting me one day telling me you should have listened to me. take care. bye bye 11:08 AM

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Someone is sharing Info from Verify Him! Stop it!

LET ME ADDRESS THE FOLLOWING HERE. I SPEAK TO AND WITH PEOPLE THE WAY I WANT. I DONT DO PASSIVE JUST SIT AND SEE HOW IT PLAYS OUT STUFF. HOWEVER IN REGARD TO MY EXCHANGE WITH SAID PIMP FROM FOLKSALERT. THE OTHER LADY WHOS NAME I BLURRED OUT AT THE BEGINNING OF THE SCREENSHOT MENTIONED VH.. AND IT IRRITATED THE SHIT OUT OF ME THAT SHE SO NONCHALANTLY ACTED LIKE THE SCREENSHOT BEING ON INSTAGRAM WASNT AN ISSUE SO I LET HIM AND THEM KNOW IT WAS!!!!!

I AM NOT SORRY FOR DOING SO. AND I DONT NEED TO HIDE WHO I AM FROM THIS PIMP. HE USED TO HAVE A SITE CALLED GOTFOLKS.COM ITS NO SECRET AND PLENTY OF ATLANTA PIMPS ARE WELL AWARE OF WHO I AM AND ONE OF THE ATL BBWS USED TO BE QUITE FRIENDLY W HIM ON HIS SITE ALTHO NOT SURE WHERE THE PIMP HIMSELF IS FROM!

but the point is whether he remembers me or not its not our first run in. And I go head to head always with any PIMP I come across, because they all walk around like women are stupid and beneath them and I remind them we are not! So if you ever want to doubt my loyalty to being a feminist and a strong advocate of WOMEN not answering to a man for shit.. DONT!! I ride or die WOMAN POWER AND FEMALE DIGNITY!! Period.

I don't have to be passive because you choose to be. We are different people.

AND TO BE 100 PERCENT HONEST ..THE PIMPS ARE NOT INFILTRATING VH AS MEN .. THEY ARE ALLOWING THEIR WORKERS TO DO IT. FEMALES ARE TAKING THE INFO AND RUNNING IT BACK TO THEM SO TO BE QUITE HONEST MY STATEMENT ABOUT MEN ARENT SUPPOSED TO KNOW WHATS SAID ON VH IS OF NO CONSEQUENCE. THE ISSUE IS THE DISLOYAL CHICKS ON HERE TAKING INFO BACK TO PIMPS .. PERIOD!! Theres the problem, thats what needs to be addressed!

So you ladies can see the exact conversation he had with me this morning. To whoever you are .. the person who shared the info. Thats not how we share information. If you wanted to keep other girls safe and pass the word there are Private provider forums on almost all the Review sites, and on other forums as well. Hell you could have typed your warning on Twitter etc.. but screenshotting VH is a no no!

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Sunday, August 14, 2016

Its Sunday.. and Wow.. what a morning Of men who do not know how to book appointments

So this person wasn't the first bad one of the day but .. he was the final straw. I do not know if some of you are really and truly that lost in how to be gentlemen, or if you think these kinds of shenanigans are funny. I am here to tell you, You will not book one escort,companion, etc of any real standards or caliber with that approach. I am sure there are some ladies who will allow it, however those of us with dignity will not!

I nor any escort of standards wants to read your graphic, vulgar requests. We do not want to be asked questions about our vajay's. We do not want to hear about your dick, cock, penis.. we do not want to see pics or videos of it either! Women are mental creatures. I don't know how many times I need to say this. Impress a woman's mind and her panties will come off so much quicker. We know men are visual creatures, Women however are not wired the same. We operate differently in terms of what will turn us on.

Trust me your dirty talk and pics are NOT the way to begin setting up a good session that will leave you coming back for more.

So in closing an example of booking gone wrong.. enlarge image to see actual convo. Then don't do it guys!

L**********

7:58 AM (12 minutes ago)

to me

I'm looking for bare blow job, ball squeezeing massage, A shave around my private parts and ass. Can you help?

Sent from my iPad

linda fields

8:03 AM (7 minutes ago)

to *****

I swear If one more person emails or texts me anymore craziness this morning. .. boy oh boy. Do you guys really , really think that is acceptable? Let me say this to you.. pass it to any friends you may have who hope to book a companion.

Just because we ladies accept money for our time with you, does not mean you get a free pass to be vulgar, disrespectful and ridiculous.

Not to mention, Its just in bad taste to approach any woman that way.. even if you deem her a hooker, prostitute, any of those misogynistic terms created by men to describe us. We as women, we are still women deserve your respect and I personally wont settle for the bs.

So with that said. I do not entertain men who speak to me this way. I only decided to take the time to email this to you because you are the third person in less than 24 hours to just really go about meeting so horribly wrong.

Please be a gentleman next time you contact a companion

Storm